Watzlawick
yes I'm proud of something. I have detected a Watzlawick situation and ... attempts to resolve.
So. At dinner.
Mother: (speaks of Tae-Bo-appearance) And so and so, daughter of so and manages to be so no longer, if they never mitübt. This is a total chaos, the Häflte's never there at the rehearsals. And the choreography is always complicated. This can not work.
Father: Then you stop running in opposite Directions, of which the world comes not already.
Mother: It just that then quite a gap where people can not. In the statement.
(Long pause) I
: Of the world comes not as ...
Mother: Well, I tell you some day when you told me something!
(Pause) I
: It was a well-intentioned comment because of you you do not have to worry so much.
HA! Typical levels of relationship conflict. She had interpreted the statement as if I am not interested in their problems, or they think is unimportant, while I (and my father) really wanted to help. Had I then said nothing more, it would be for it was clear that we do not care about it, while we would have been clear that it is released at the slightest remark . (For other interpretations too tired.)
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